Sunday, April 29, 2012

Some days just aren’t going to be your day


The Country Music ½ Marathon was the first half marathon I completed two years ago.  That was a crazy day.  My friend Emily somehow managed to convince me that this was a good idea.  We showed up at the starting line about 15 minutes before the starting gun.  Or so we thought.  Turns out, our corral is already starting.  The race director decided to start the race early due to bad storms are tornados approaching Nashville.  I don’t remember much about that race… just a few highlights.  A.  Emily, speeding along and leaving me in her smoke somewhere around mile, oh I don’t know…. 0.2 maybe?  J B. It was crowded C. I learned the importance of runner’s lube and how debilitating chaffing can be.  One thing I’ll never forget about that race was the intense mix of emotions I felt when I crossed the finish line.  At first it was, “Wow, I can’t believe I did that.”  Second, it was “Next time, I’m going to do better”  From there I was hooked…. Addicted to the quest of bigger and better. That shouldn't have been my day, but I made it my day.

Fast forward two years to April 28, 2012, the St. Jude Country Music Marathon.  I thought the weekend started well.  My mom and I had a great lunch at one of her favorite spots.  We went to the expo and got all my race gear and SWAG.  We went to the mall and of course everything in The Loft was 40% off so I stocked up on goodies there.  And then we went home and my parents cooked one of my favorite meals.  It’s pretty simple, just grilled chicken, sautéed squash and zucchini over angel hair pasta.  Would have been better with a glass of wine, but oh well…. Maybe next time J

Saturday morning I woke up, got dressed, prepared my race essentials and we were off to Centennial Park.  While in the car I realize my iPod armband is dead.  It’s got to be at least 3, if not 4, years old.  So needless to say it’s been through a lot with me. The Velcro is coming off and I’ve tried to re-glue it over and over again.  But today it just wasn’t going to cut it.  No worries.  I can put the ipod in my shirt.  Then I start to put my race number on.  Open the envelope I got at the expo and only had two pins.  Great.  This is going to be awkward.  The race bibs are already over half the size of my torso and now I’m not going to have it secure on my shirt.  I put one on the top left and one on the bottom right.  I wish I knew how to fold it up and make it a lot smaller but oh well…. Who has time to think at that hour just minutes before the start??? So I battled it the whole time I ran... flopping around and being generally annoying.

I get in my corral and wait for the race to begin.  This could have been my least favorite part of the race.  Your anxiety level is high.  The crowd’s intensity is high.  Everyone is excited to be there.  Snapping pictures.  Sharing last minute words of encouragement.  Warming up.  Stretching cold muscles (ps never a good idea).  Jumping up and down like preschooler being bribed with animal crackers.  Everyone except me.  I’m bored.  I’m lonely.  And I just don’t know why I’m here. 

The race starts and I’m just cruising through the streets.  It’s warm, but I’m feeling good.  I learned a lot about running in the heat when I was in Gainesville in February.  I knew to drink water before I was thirsty.  Had plenty of Gatorade to replenish my electrolytes.  And took several packets of salt during the run.  It sounds gross, but I had to eat plain packets of salt to prevent dehydration. 

The first few miles are exactly how I remembered them… same course, same crowds as before.  I was excited to see my parents in front of their church shortly after mile 5. When I saw them I was feeling good.  My stride was perfect, comfortable speed, and feeling better than expected.  Right on pace, feeling the heat but it wasn’t stopping me.


Pretty soon I saw more and more runners laying on the sidewalks… medics tending to them.  I’m guessing they had severe cramps, dehydration, or some other heat related infliction… then I start thinking what is worth pushing your body that hard?  Was I ready for that today?  Or any day?

Today, I wasn’t prepared to push myself to that extreme.  I had nothing on the line.  Nothing that I was that passionate about.  That’s when I got to thinking… I mean, seriously, now’s the perfect time to think, considering I’ve got nothing else to do for the next three to four hours.

Around mile 10 I decided to slow my pace and start walking.  I would walk 2 minutes; run 8 minutes.  I don’t know why I picked this 8-2 plan.  It probably doesn’t have much scientific, physical, or physiological benefit to running, but it’s easy math for me. 

Pretty soon, around mile 11, the half marathoners split off and went to their last leg of the race.  Lucky “Sons ovva bitches” I thought to myself.  I powered up the hill, through another water stop.  At this point I felt fine.  My legs weren’t tired.   Surprisingly I wasn’t feeling any pain… especially since I had tweaked my hamstring the weekend before when I ran an easy four miles.   My body felt fine.  It was my brain that was tired and weak.  I began considering quitting.  Why shouldn’t I?  I’m not having fun.  I’m not making a difference.  I didn’t care if I let myself down.

Then I saw my parents again at mile 12.  I told my mom… I don’t know what I’m doing.  I don’t want to do this anymore but I kept going.  I knew I would pass them at this spot again so I would decide what I wanted to do before I got back here again. 

As I approached the 13th mile marker, I slowed to a walk so that I could get a Gu Chomp and some water.  And without much thought or consideration I just turned around.  I got on the sidewalk and ran back toward my parents and the half marathon runners.  Done.  That was it.  I was over it for the day.  I wasn’t doing poorly.  I was pretty much on pace with where I wanted to be.  When I turned around I passed the 4:30 marathon pace group.  For a brief second I considered joining them and making new friends.  But I didn’t.  I didn’t because no one was making me and I wasn’t going to make myself. 

I found my parents again and told them I was going to finish the half and I’ll meet them at the finish line.  I was in much better spirits to know that I was close to finishing now.  The last two miles weren’t great.  Everyone was walking.  It was hot and there were several decent hills or inclines in the home stretch of this race.  But the good news is we finished on a downhill.  I crossed the finish line.  Graciously accepted the half marathon finisher’s medal from a volunteer and quietly made my way through the shoot to collect my water, Gatorade, and banana.  I found my parents and sat in the shade to rest a minute. I watched as people cheered the many St. Jude Hero finishers enter their VIP tent.  I wanted that.  I wanted someone to cheer for me.

I held back my tears and walked to the car in silence.  I didn’t feel like talking to anyone.  I had a lot to think about….

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